Why Can't I Get the Results I Desire? Or, What's Better Than My Current Life?

I recently coached someone who had been looking for a permanent job for four years. She is highly skilled, multi-talented and very personable.

Why can't she get a job?

There are at least two dynamics going on here.

1. People often sabotage their own efforts to succeed. Why? For a variety of reasons, everything from not feeling they deserve success, wealth, to having limiting beliefs, how they fit in it and how comfortable they are. Potential employers intuitively sense your emotional set point. The Law of Attraction says that if you are vibrating from frustration, fear or despair, which is easy to understand after you have done all the 'right' things without results, you will attract a match which in this case is nothing and in other cases is something less than desired. Too many 'experts' teach you how to do X Y and Z and you should get the results you desire. I know I was one of them. But now I have discovered the key. Just doing the 'Right Things' is not enough. You need clear you resistance, the limiting beliefs, habits and conditioned responses that keep us from achieving our goals.

2. People have conditioned responses. Wanting to just pay the bills keeps you on the survival level. Having a goal to make a difference in the world will stretch your acceptance levels and push past your limitations.

Although everyone is different, this lovely talented woman was ready to take a housekeeping job in order to survive. Her dream was big, her belief in herself was big but her limiting beliefs and resulting low vibration about who gets hired in this particular city kept her frustrated and angry and creates a lower vibration that keeps the fabulous job from coming her way.

But what would it take to increase your emotional / vibrational set point?

Everything that is ~ is energy. You ~ me ~ a flower ~ a table ~the lake

All life, all happenings, all circumstance, all luck is based on one simple principle of physics:

"Like frequencies (vibrations) attract"

Everything we get in life or don't get is based on that principle. Every car accident, every lottery win, wedding, raise, divorce, frustrating job or goal achieved is based on this principle. What comes or doesn't come to us does so because we, and we alone, have caused it.

Here are the actual mechanics of how we attract or repel absolutely every event in our lives.

  1. Everything that is ~ is energy, including us
  2. All energy vibrates; therefore, so do we
  3. 'Like' vibrations attract 'like' vibrations
  4. The way we think causes the way we feel
  5. Every feeling has its own vibration
  6. Therefore, we attract only by the way we feeeeeeeeel

Where are you?

Are you adrift in your life? You may be functioning in your job, but you feel as if you are in a fog. Nothing works; you don't know what your next steps are; your way of expressing in the world seems wrong; you are just stuck.

In truth, this is the most powerful of times, because everything you need for your next creation is being developed. And the day will come when you will wake up and thrive!

Or maybe you have experienced that time of new beginnings where you know that you are on your 'right' path and experienced that success and fulfillment and things have wilted a little - you know that you need to take it to a new level or discover the next path.

Believe It or Not This Is Your Time

It is from the place where you are not feeling, acting or enjoying the fullness of your life that the greatest creations happen. They are a necessary part of creation. When things are grand and you have obtained success on a level we can rest and bask in this stage but one day we wake up just feeling a little different or 'off'You begin to doubt yourself, your skills and talents and capabilities. As time passes, you wonder why you don't have the enthusiasm and vigor for life that you had. You can stay there with the cloud settled over you or you can choose to see that this is the time of rebirth. All great inventions, discoveries, new systems and processes were created from the realization that what is not good enough and it is time to create better and more.

Answer this question

Where am I and where do I want to be?

It is a pretty simple but life changing question.

My goal is to help you answer this question.

Law of Attraction and Law of Allowing: The Unspoken Secrets to Achieving Big Dreams

I have been applying these laws for years, secretly. Of course, I had to test them out, see if it they really worked. I have attracted a dream home, dream property (195 acres, river frontage, majestic trees, nature's breathing space) fabulous relationships, family and colleagues and more importantly dream work which is meaningful work. That's where you come in.

My dream is to help you achieve your dreams, appreciate the contrast (the things you don't want) and from this place launch new wants and dreams. If you want to achieve big dreams in business, your career or your personal life you need to learn and apply the Laws of Attraction and Allowing deliberately.

So the lesson today is to consider your current level, consider your goals or dreams and consider what people, resources or processes can help you activate your vibration to attract and live what you want.

The point is this: To achieve what you want, you have to learn how to elininate your resistance and conditioned responses. You may have to step out of your current place and do it, but the step is well worth taking.

And the amazing most wonderful part of choosing this pathway is that you will know each step of the way which step is the right for you. It will be as if you came home. Your guidance system will be on. You will have activated that internal guidance system. Instead of doing the right things your actions are inspired and Law of Attraction will work its science.

My question to ask yourself today is this:

So, what do I want?

Your answer is the key to your success.

What will you decide and how will you allow it to happen? Or will you make a decision to do what's right for you and allow your wants to become reality.

Your future depends on your answer.
Your prosperity depends on your answer.

Your Challenge
In my coaching relationships, I challenge every person to live meaningful purposeful lives.

You obviously are eager to feel the fullness of life. You obviously want to be prosperous, do meaningful work and make a difference in the world.

You are obviously open-minded. You just let me reveal the secret of attracting what you want, and increasing your vibrational set point, some of which may have made you a little uncomfortable.

So here's my challenge
These principles work. Although they are ancient principles the general public is just re-learning them now. There is a new book, course or study group coming out every week. And I have known and practiced these laws for years. I can help you identify and eliminate your resistance and attract what you need to increase your prosperity and live a meaningful life.

I don't need any fancy words to convince you to buy this right now. We're beyond that. We're talking face-to-face, soul-to-soul, and heart to heart.

You know what to do.

Call Cora Whittington at 705-745-4006 or click here for more contact information

Again ~ What are you going to do?
Are you going to act now and lift the bar on your past limitations?
Are you going to ask, So, what do I want?
Are you going to look for ways to elininate your resistance?
Are you going to allow your wants and dreams to come true?

Call me Cora Whittington at 705-745-4006 or click here for more contact information

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